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I had a conversation with my friend Kathryn who is in love with a guy, I asked her why she loved him, she said " I don't know". I stood aghast, so I had to share with her 10 things I have learnt on what to look out for before choosing a man... I believe this will also inspire you.

 " Kathryn why do you love Him?"

 Reply: " I don't know why but I just love Him".

 Marriage is one of the highest friendship on Earth and it's of great value to our Maker.

In most cases women enter relationships emotionally while men enter transactionally or logically.

Its high time we started looking beyond "I want a man that is tall, handsome, wealthy and influential" to:
  1.   I want a man that is committed to helping me realize God's purpose and potentials in me and whose purpose aligns with mine. 
  2.  A man that's there when there is no reason to be.
  3. A man that has a deep relationship with God.
  4.  A man that knows my faults and can accept me as I am.
  5.  A man that loves me enough to tell me the truth even when no one does.
  6.  A mature man.
  7.  A man that is committed to me and can stand by me at all times. 
  8.  A man that's in deep into service and with whom I can be transparent. 
  9.  A man of vision.
  10.  A man of good character e.t.c

What you look for in a man should go beyond your wants to your needs. Your "need" is essential. Let's us not major on the minor in our choice for a man.
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. (Genesis 2:24).
Always present every man that ask you out before God to know what He has to say. Your understanding of any man is limited but God's understanding is unlimited — this is why we pray.

Don't under estimate the weapon of prayer before you choose a man.

Guest post by: Caroline Nnamdi

Do have a blessed and fulfilling day.


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