HOW TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE FUN

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Happiness in life is not something that has to do with your physical possessions. Happiness is first a choice and a state of the heart. True Happiness comes from knowing God, knowing how special you are to Him and abiding in His will for your life. Do have a blessed and prosperous week.

"A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a downcast spirit dries up the bones" Proverbs 17:22

You will learn in this article how to make your relationship and marriage fun



Relationship/Marriage is not to be endured but to be enjoyed, this is the creator's design. Thinking that God will give you a partner that will make your life boring is a malady.

God wants you to have fun with your lover.

Everyone wants their relationship/marriage to be fun; so in the choice of a life partner, many people lookout for someone that has a humorous personality. Because of this, many especially ladies have it in their criteria that their suitors must have a sense of humor. In short, they don't like boring partners. Well, that is a good desire but what are you also contributing towards it.

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No one rises up to be humorous. The comic nature thrives on the platform of motivation. Even professional comedians have to be paid to joke. Being humorous is natural but it needs a push to function effectively. Everyone you see can make you happy if you learn how to trigger them.


Fun is not doing something sinful with your lover.

Extramarital and premarital sex is not fun — it is called sin.

 Ask single mothers who got their child or children out of wedlock; it's not fun to them.

Those suffering from STDs, it's not fun to them.

Opening your legs first without opening your heart to a guy is not fun, it's opening your future to heartbreak and regret.

When you dupe a man because he loves you to enrich yourself is not fun; it is not wisdom — it is sinful, God does like such.

Fun shouldn't create a pleasant life for you today and a painful future.

Please don't be religious with your lover, love them spontaneously.


How to have fun in your relationship/marriage:


  • You can have fun with your lover when you are affectionate towards your them;
  • When you give them gifts;
  • Giving them surprises;
  • When you spend time with them;
  • By listening to them;
  • By valuing them and their opinions;
  • Making them your number one priority after God;
  • Making them happy;
  • Taking them out on dates;
  • Playing together eg,  games;
  • Loving them creatively;
  • Always making them laugh... Please add your tips in the comment box.



If you can laugh at whatever says even when it is not funny, that suitor will have a reason to create more laughable scenarios. If you can also try something funny, it will make him or her do more funnier stuff. If you can let your partner feel appreciated and not look like a fool, he or she will let you have no need of watching a comic movie.

Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own. Robert A. Heinlein
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The truth is that most people who call others boring are the most boring.

You are boring if all you need is for someone to make you happy. Come alive, make people around you happy also. It is likely for even "Mr. Bean" to play gentle and quiet around his wife if she doesn't create the atmosphere for him to express his humorous nature. If the funniest person stays around an offended, grieved, reserved or consistently angry person for some time, he will withdraw and soon take after him or her. Depression is infectious.

It is time to bring the boy in that man or the girl in that woman by being humorous yourself or consistently responding positively to the little jokes of your partner. Be 'deep' enough to understand his or her sense of humor in order not to fight over a comment or an action that was meant to create an exciting atmosphere. Most spouses have become as quiet as a corpse in the home and playful at work because they were severally fought over something that was supposedly meant to excite the other.

Folks are usually about as happy as they make their minds up to be.― Abraham Lincoln
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If you want a humorous partner, then you must be ready for expensive jokes sometimes. If you demand that you are made happy, then be patient enough to handle all the attempts to make you happy. Sometimes you must relegate your academic, professional and spiritual status just to be common enough to play jokes with your partner. Know that not only you deserve to be happy, the one making you happy must be happy too. When he makes you happy, don't assume that he is happy himself. Find a way to also make him happy. Don't play selfish in the matter of happiness.

What other things do you think can make relationship/marriage fun? Please share it in the comment box.

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.― Dalai Lama XIV

Happiness is not in multiple relationships with sexual encounters. You must first know God and have an intimate relationship with Him to experience true happiness that will last a lifetime.

Read also: The most important question you need to ask in life

You can begin a relationship now with the Lord Jesus Christ by saying this prayer:

 Lord Jesus Christ, I acknowledge that I am a sinner, I believe in your death and resurrection. I ask you to forgive me my sins, I reject the devil and all his works and l welcome the Holy Spirit into my life. I declare today I am born again and I am a child of God in Jesus' name. Amen.
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