Revealed: 4 important truths about the personality of a woman (01)

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"Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies".(Proverbs 31:10 KJV)

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You are a woman of dignity. Where you are, how you are and your family background does not change the truth about who you are.

Don't be deceived by the deceitfulness of  pleasure that targets the destruction of your destiny. You are not a toy that a guy can play with whenever he likes. You are not a game that guys play, watch and bet who will win and loose, because they don't value your personality. You are not a loose woman you are a woman of Valour and your life and destiny is PRICELESS.

See also: How I was deceived by my feelings

It is heart breaking to see that most ladies do not have a slight idea of who they are. They have been given wrong perceptions of who they are not.

They have the perception that:
They are the needy not the needed
They are the favoured not a favour
They are ugly not beautiful
They are the rejected not the accepted
They are the forsaken and forgotten not the loved.
They are in a man's world and they don't fulfill their destiny because it is a man's world as they think it is.

Your perception about who you are will determine the action of others towards you.
So, this who I think you are as a lady:

  1. You are the needed:

"And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him."(Genesis 2:18)

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God looked at Adam and said it is not good for him to be alone, so he made a woman to be a helper for him. The woman was created by God because the man needs her not for her to be needy to him. She did not come into the man's life begging for his attention. She was not a helper to Adam not because he was very powerful, handsome, wealthy and influential, but because she is an asset to the life, family, destiny, ministry and career of Adam. Adam was a man who was given dominion over the whole earth before the fall Eve would have acted needy before him not she didn't because she knew that was not to be a liability to Adam but an asset. She knew that she was priceless, no wonder God created her in a special way.

See also: You are special

A man needs a woman who can be a wife not a girlfriend or a mistress in his home.

A man needs a woman who can be a good mother and mentor to his children.

A man needs a woman who is going to be his best friend and partner for life.

A man needs a woman who will submit to his authority as the head of the home.

A  man needs a woman that will love and respect him for who he is not what he has or don't have.

A  man needs a woman who will give him peace not a quarrelsome or nagging wife.

A man needs a woman that is industrious and economical with money.

A man needs a woman that is very creative and productive.

A  man needs a woman that speaks and acts with wisdom.

A man needs a woman that is accommodating.

A man needs a woman that is not just beautiful on the outside but beautiful on inside ( good character).

A man needs a woman that believes in his dream.

A man needs a woman that loves God more than she loves him.

You are been needed shows that you are valuable and priceless. How much can a  man pay to have you in his life? If there was a price tag he can't pay because your price tag  is Priceless.

Being needed or needy is a choice you have to make.

You make this choice by choosing to invest in yourself to be needed or not invest in yourself so you can be needy.
The needy ladies are those who want men to do everything for them, they are so lazy that they don't make use of their thinking faculties. This is why they can do anything wrong to get what they want in life which is always at the detriment of their destiny.
When they get married they become a liability to their husbands, they become bad mothers to their children.

The way to invest in yourself so that you can be needed is to first build a relationship with God your creator, pray, study and meditate on God's word, follow the right association, listen, watch and read books that will help you to be a good mother, wife, partner to your husband, children and the entire family.

To be continued on Friday... I hope you enjoyed this write up. Please comment below and share with us your thoughts on   this topic. We with be so glad to hear from you.

Dear Friend, God created you to be PRICELESS but the devil has placed a price tag on your destiny, to some this price tag is sex, money, fame, immoral dressing etc. You must know that God is not against your happiness in life, He always want you to be happy. God has the capacity to make you a woman that is needed not needy. This will not be possible if you don't have a relationship with him, through your relationship with Him He with teach you how to be a woman that is needed. 

You can begin a relationship now with the lord Jesus Christ and experience His love for you by saying this prayer:
Lord Jesus Christ I acknowledge that I am a sinner, I believe in your death and resurrection. I ask you to forgive me my sins, I reject the devil and all his works and l welcome the Holy Spirit into my life. I declare today I am born again and I am a child of God in Jesus name. Amen.
If you just said that prayer I welcome you to God's family. Look for a Bible believing church where God's word is taught and fellowship there.

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