Welcome to Purposeful Living Today. Your preparation before marriage is prophetic of the kind of life you want to live when you are married. We at Fulfill Purpose Blog love and celebrate, we hope you are having a great day? The lord is your strengthen, fear not!

Marriage is a life time course, career or  profession that we never graduate from. Marriage itself is an institution on its own; the chancellor is God while the husband is the vice chancellor.  It is flabbergasting that you are given your certificate of marriage on your wedding day, on like when you are studying for courses in the university you must write exam and meet the requirements  of the institution before a certificate is given to you. This therefore means that the success and failure of your marriage is  as determined by you and your spouse. The success of your marriage is based on your preparation for marriage. The reason we have so many failed marriage today is as a result of poor preparation for marriage on the part of the couple.

To become a medical doctor,  you don't become one by wishing or saying it you become one by  going to a medical school and be trained so you can be called Dr MarkBlesssing. When it comes to marriage we make little or no preparation for; we spend more time preparing for the wedding which is just an event, a one day event for that matter. You spend your dates and downtime talking about the flowers, the venue, the guest list, the tux, the songs, the wedding party, the reception, the food, the music, and on and on. As the wedding day draws near, you keep saying to each other, “Can you believe it’s almost here?” and you worry about the details and talk about who can’t make it, etc.

The ceremony happens  and before you know it’s almost over and you embark on your honeymoon. You spend two days re-living the ceremony (who was there, who wasn’t, what went right, what was funny, could you believe he said that, or that she did that?), and by about the third day of the honeymoon the ceremony is talked out.

 The marriage that is a life time experience you don't spend time to prepare for it. It is our preparation that will determine our manifestation in marriage; the manifestation of a healthy or unhealthy marriage. Marriage will require  you to play the following roles in your home; a wife /husband, father/mother, in-law, a friend,  son or daughter to your parent etc. This means that marriage comes with responsibilities, how prepared are you to handle these responsibilities when you in your marriage? Someone once said it is very easy to find a boyfriend/girlfriend in a day but to find a husband/wife it cannot be in one day. Even if God tells you the day you met the person for the first time that that you will marry him/her; you have to do your home work to know  the person before you marry. The bible says my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge marriage is destroyed for lack of knowledge on the things that are need to be known on how to build a successful marriage.

See also: How my poor husband became wealthy and influential

So, this write up will reveals to you  what you should  do to prepare for marriage and how can you prepare for a healthy marriage. God wants you to have a great fulfilling marriage and build a great home.  This book will revolutionize your mind by the power of the Holy Spirit. Get hungry and eat as it gets hot in each series.
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There is a void in every man that wealth, fame, social status, sex, drink, fun and the likes can't fill.  It is only God that can fill that void, what is that void that is missing? It is the absence JESUS IN YOUR LIFE AND ALL HE OFFERS such as peace, love, righteousness and joy in the Holy Ghost.  You have taken the wheel of your life all by yourself and like Peter you have caught nothing with your life, this is the time to allow Jesus Christ into your boat (life)  so he can help you to catch the fullness of life in him that gives you a meaningful life on earth and defines your eternal destination.

If you want to surrender to Jesus Christ, why not say this prayer:

Lord Jesus Christ  I acknowledge that I am a sinner,  I believe in your death and resurrection.  I ask you forgive me of my sins,  I reject the devil and all his works and l welcome the Holy Spirit into my life.  I declare today I am born again and I am a child of God in Jesus name .Amen .

If you just said that prayer I welcome you to God's family. Look for a Bible believing church where God's word is taught to fellowship there.

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