10 GOLDEN SECRETS YOU MUST KNOW BEFORE MARRIAGE

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"Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely hind, a graceful doe. Let her affection fill you at all times with delight, be infatuated always with her love". Proverbs 5:18,19


By virtue of God's love for us through Christ, we are blessed. God intends for us to be intentional about walking in the blessings He has bestowed on us through Christ. Marriage in itself is a blessing depending on how you view it. You shouldn't allow the struggles or hardship you face push you to the point of regrets. God is always ready to answer us and supply all our needs.

The blessings of marriage is seen in a man always rejoicing in the gift(his wife) God has given him; letting her affection fill him always and making no room for another. However, before going into marriage, there are golden secrets or things to expect so you don't go in unprepared. This is for both married couple and those about to or will marry..

To Those Who Are Married And/Or Are Preparing To Get Married Soon:
  1. Anyone You Marry Has A Weakness
Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse's weakness, you can't get the best out of his/her strength.
  1. Anyone You Marry Has A Dark History
No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one's past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. Try to forgive and forget. The past can't be changed. So Focus on the present and the future!

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  1. Every Marriage Has It's Own Challenges
Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test time, hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!
  1. Every Marriage Has Different Levels Of Success
Don't compare your marriage with anyone! We can never be equal. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.
  1. To Marry Is To Declare A War
When you marry, you must declare a war and be ready to fight against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Intolerance, Ignorance, Unforgivingness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Wife biting, Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.
  1. There Is No Perfect Marriage
There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back hassles and If these parts are not properly maintained, the car will brake down somewhere along the road and expose the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. - Many married couple are careless about their marriage... Are you? If you are, please pay attention to your marriage.
  1.   You May Not Get The Complete Person You Desire
You may desire a woman who can do some certain things but unfortunately its otherwise. With your love, tolerance and encouragement, she can improve.

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  1. To Marry Is To Take A Risk
You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situation may change, so leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get marry to her because she's slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at last.
  1. Marriage Is Not A Contract, It Is Permanent
Marriage needs total commitment; love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! Divorce is not an option.
  1. Every Marriage Has A Price To Pay
Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving and sacrificing.  

In all, a blissful marriage is what God ordained since the beginning. God is the Institutor of marriage and you cannot pass in this institution or college without Him by your side! It is impossible. God is always willing to direct our paths and lead us in the way that we should go. See Psalm 32.

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