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"Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." (Hebrews 13:4).

Love is not sex, sex is not love. You cannot get love through sex. There are two different thing entirely... Hold on to this truth.

"Sex is designed by God for marriage not for a boyfriend/ Girlfriend relationship."

Love is an expression of care or concern for the betterment of someone. It is the letting go of yourself just so another person can experience the beauty of life. It is not a feeling but creates a feeling...

Love is a person and that is God (1 John 4:7), so if you want to know what love is and experience this God given love life then you have to know God and receive His free unconditional love.

When the God kind of love is expressed there will be an overflow of peace and joy in the heart of the one being loved.
I had a conversation some days ago with a young man who said that his elder sister told him that his relationship will not last until he sleeps with the girl he is in a relationship with. He was  confused and then came to me for advice.

Well I had to tell him that what his sister said is a lie from Mr devil and that is not God's plan for sex. The design for SEX is only in marriage not even in courtship. This is God's plan.

Like this young man you may have been told that sex is the best way to tie down your lover, you may be told that sex is the oil that keeps your relationship going. You are being pressured by society, especially celebrities that say there is nothing wrong with having sex with a person you love.
This is all but lie from the devil to lead you to Hell where he belongs.

The fact people are doing it does not make it right, it does not make it Godly no matter who does it!  God has not changed His his standards and will not because of people who have chosen to live a perverse life.

"Sex is not the means to a loving and long lasting relationship."

God, Understanding, knowledge, character, love, honour, wisdom, respect, communication and purpose are the means to experience a loving and long lasting relationship.

"God is the ORIGINATOR of SEX not the devil. He has a DESIGN for SEX and if you are His child you follow His design."

When you do it His way you attracts the BLESSING involved but if you don't you will experience the CURSE that such acts will have on your life and future.

God Created you to live sexually pure and I believed in sexual purity.

Sexual PURITY is the state of your HEART. Virginity is the state of your being. There are many virgins today that are not sexually pure; they masturbate, watch porn and live in of immorality.

It is not enough to SAY; I have not done it before, but what is in your heart... Do you know that some persons are still virgins because they have not met "the right guy or girl to do it with".

 Let us pursue SEXUAL PURITY. Sexual PURITY continues even after you have lost your virginity in marriage to your husband/wife.

SEXUAL PURITY is living Holy unto God.
SEXUAL purity is not for your husband/wife, it is for God. Yes, honouring God with your body.

1 Thessalonians 4:3-5
[3]For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
[4]That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour;
[5]Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God.
Let us be SEXUALLY pure in words, thoughts and deeds. This is the will of God.

Don't forget that your BODY is the TEMPLE of the HOLY SPIRIT.

1 Corinthians 6:18-20
[18]Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
[19]What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
[20]For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.

You can begin a relationship now with the Lord Jesus Christ who loves you more than anyone on earth and will lead you to a man who will value you by saying this prayer:

Lord Jesus Christ  I acknowledge that I am a sinner,  I believe in your death and resurrection.  I ask you forgive me my sins,  I reject the devil and all his works and l welcome the Holy Spirit into my life.  I declare today I am born again and I am a child of God in Jesus name. Amen.

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