SIGNS A PERSON WILL MARRY WRONGLY


Welcome to purposeful living today. One important key to success is self-confidence and the key to self-confidence is preparation. We pray with you that you will not be cast out in the midst of successful people; and that the Presence of God will be with you and His Hand of Love will be upon you for good. You are destined to reign! Do have a blessed day!


"But God's firm foundation stands, bearing this seal: "The Lord knows those who are His," and, "Let every one who names the name of the Lord depart from iniquity." 2 Timothy 2:19



Your choice of a life partner must be dependent on God. You know why? Because God is the initiator of marriage. It is His will that a man and a woman come together in the covenant of marriage to fulfill His purpose; and such purposes include to be fruitful and multiply, to establish His will here on earth, for building up of the church in cooperation because two heads are better than one, to also walk in line with the gifts and abilities He has bestowed on us; thereby maximizing our potentials for His Glory and many others.

You cannot choose the right spouse when your mind is set on worldly things. Our God is ever ready to lead us in His perfect will for our lives but He will not force Himself on us as one special gift we as humans have received from God is the gift of free will. He needs our permission to come in; that is why Jesus says in Revelation 3:20 "Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me". If we do not cooperate with the Holy Spirit to direct us on our choice, then we cannot enjoy marriage as God ordained it.

Watch out for these 10 signs in you that will and can lead you to choosing your spouse wrongly:

1).  YOU ARE NOT BORN AGAIN
Know that life without God is full of crisis; how much more for you to engage in something that God Himself established and He is not in! To be born again is to acknowledge the "Lordship" of Jesus Christ in your life; to follow His leading and abiding in Him and His love for you after you have repented from all your evil ways. The earth is the Lord's and the fullness thereof. For you to enjoy life and all there is in it, you must certainly be born again and have Jesus as the center of your life's program. When you have placed Him in the rightful position in your life, you are well able to hear from Him in both small and major decisions in your life as well as follow His leading.

2).  YOU ARE HAVING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
Dear, one important ingredient for a fulfilled life is knowledge and you cannot go through life and be fulfilled without having and walking based on the knowledge of God's ways which He has made known to us through His Word. The fact people around you are doing it does not in anyway make it right! Please be discerning and stop following the status quo. You are there to turn the tables around and to be a standard for others to follow. God did not design sexual intercourse outside marriage. It is an act to be done only between a man and his wife in marriage. This is God's design for it. It is not for pleasure outside of marriage; there is more to it than meets the eye. Having sex outside marriage beclouds your choice of choosing rightly because you will be thinking you love him or he loves you as a result of the emotional bond that may have come up in the process.

3).  YOU CHOOSE BASED ON FEELING INSTEAD OF THE WORD OF GOD
In partaking in everything on earth most especially in marriage that is for a life time,the Word of God ought to be as a lamp to our feet and a light to our path. Many persons do not act based on the Word of God but rather on the feelings that they have cumulated in them overtime as a result of being together with someone and even doing wrong things with the person. My dear, these things blind the eyes to choose and make everything seem as though the person is the perfect one. Detach yourself from man and attach yourself to God to know His will and choose rightly. Let His Word be your guide; else you will be in for frustration and destruction.


4).  YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE PURPOSE, PROCESS AND PATTERN FOR MARRIAGE
The Bible says "Get wisdom, and in all thy getting, get understanding". Proverbs 4:7. Understanding is indeed the way forward in life as with it, we are guided properly. Marriage has a purpose, a process and a pattern and this is where many has gotten it wrong. You fail to read books concerning marriage and just go into it because you are seeing every other person of your age getting married. We must have the right mindset concerning things in life. Know the purpose, process and pattern for marriage; understand it, before making your choice!

5).  YOU FALL IN LOVE INSTEAD OF STANDING IN LOVE
You hear persons these days say that they have fallen in love oo..when we all know that God did not "fall" in love with us but loved and still loves us unconditionally. God is standing in love towards us because His love for us is new every morning, we get a new and fresh dose of His love everyday. He loves us unconditionally and His love is eternal. Don't you know that anything that falls cannot actually stand? That is not love. You should not fall in love with someone because you will be enslaved to the person. Where there is love, there is freedom.

6).  YOU LOVE MONEY AND THE THINGS OF THIS WORLD
Do not love the world or the things in the world. If any one loves the world, love for the Father is not in Him. 1 John 2:15. God cannot lead you when you base your choice on money and worldly achievements. In fact, you must choose between the things of this world and God . Know that the love of money is the root of all evil and friendship with the world is enmity with God. You are wired to walk by faith and not by sight. If you must be guided properly in choosing the right spouse, then be friends with God and detach yourself from whatever worldly criteria you have put in your head that your spouse must possess. You must renew your mind in God. Let Him guide you first; then all other things will fall in place.

7).  YOU DON'T KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A GODLY MAN AND A GOOD MAN
Dear, God's target for you is to marry a man after His own heart. There are many good men outside there who truly have not made God the center of their lives. These people are ruled by their own impulse and can decide to burst out one day. They can decide one day to stop being good and do the otherwise. Whereas, a Godly man/woman is one that knows God and is under His Lordship and rule. He/she is ruled and led by the Spirit of God. Whatever he/she does is to please the Father and they don't have the right to act on their own impulse because they are completely sold out to God. This is God's choice for you; a spouse that loves Him and loves you and will continue to lead you to Him to achieve in unity God's purpose of establishing His will here on earth. Life is an assignment given to us by God to make known His will on earth. This world is not our home. We have come as sojourners and exiles and it is a privilege we have from God. Open your eyes.

8).  YOU HAVE PHYSICAL LOOKS THAT GET YOU CARRIED AWAY
Dear, God has made you beautiful. Don't allow this beautiful face and skin He has given you cost YOU. Don't let the gift He has bestowed on you turn out to be a regrettable one. That fine face is to draw people to you so you can lead them to Christ and make them better than you met them. Marriage is not about beautiful face and skin; the content is much more important than the container. It is very easy to make the container the way you want it but if the content of the container is ugly, it takes a long time and process to change if you are not aware of it and that is the true sauce of a blissful marriage:a well composed and beautiful content. 1 Timothy 2:9-11.

9).  YOU DO NOT ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS TO KNOW WHO A PERSON REALLY IS
Many today out of desperation for marriage see someone that is available and because of pressure from friends, family and whatever situation it is, they enter into a marriage covenant with the person without knowing who the person really is. Some don't even know the right questions to ask and after the wedding without seeking God and His approval, one thing leads to another and brings collapse in the marriage. My dear, you are not to be pressured into marriage. If God cannot infringe on your right of free will, then who is man to do so. Take your time to know a person, to seek God and His will for your Life. You have the resources to do so. The Holy Bible is there for you to seek God's will, Prayer is a free gift we can engage in anytime any day, we all have access to the internet were we can enlighten ourselves of things like this. People that rush into marriage are the same ones that rush out of it because they have made the wrong choice.

10).  YOU HAVE NOT INVESTED THE TIME AND RESOURCES IN UNDERSTANDING MARRIAGE
Anything that is worth doing is indeed worth doing well. Understanding marriage takes sacrifice on the part of self because you have to invest your time and also your resources. You must spend time reading books, going for seminars and the likes and these things need the investment of money in them. Also, you coach and teach others so that the knowledge you have passed will stay with you. You must invest your time and resources in understanding marriage for you to marry right.

These ten signs to show a person will marry wrongly have not been stated without aid. We have outlined it for you to thoroughly search yourself to know if any of these signs are in you and for you to do away with them. Marriage is not a child's play. People are making it difficult for themselves because they have not been properly guided and lack knowledge.

The first sign is very important and what precedes others. If you are not born again, you cannot enjoy all that God has placed in marriage; the love, the unity, the peace, the bliss, the wealth, the purpose and its fulfillment, the friendship and many others. The covenant of marriage cannot be established without God in it because He is the initiator. Establish a firm and deep relationship with Him today to enjoy marital bliss and life. It is not too late to start afresh;

You can begin a relationship now with the Lord Jesus Christ by saying this prayer:

 Lord Jesus Christ I acknowledge that I am a sinner, I believe in your death and resurrection. I ask you to forgive me my sins, I reject the devil and all his works and l welcome the Holy Spirit into my life. I declare today I am born again and I am a child of God in Jesus name .Amen .
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