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"Seek out of the book of the Lord and read: not one of these [details of prophecy] shall fail, none shall want and lack her mate [in fulfillment]. For the mouth [of the Lord] has commanded, and His Spirit has gathered them" ( Isaiah 34:16 AMP).

Dear reader today we will be looking at what we need to know know before thinking of marriage. This I tell is very important, it is one thing that has sustained many couples in marriage. So let's begin...

Most people are flummoxed on who to marry, why they want to marry and what to look for in a mate. Some get married just because of love, beauty and so many other reasons. These reasons are not wrong in themselves, they are important but the pivot is Marrying for a purpose, Marrying on purpose and Marrying with a purpose. I came across this inspiring  article by Allison Hyacintho and thought of sharing with you, it will bless you.


Hi guys, I just want to take a minute to talk to someone here about marrying purpose!
I have been away for a week now, needed some time to get a good rest and enjoy my intimate relationship with God some more without distractions from counseling, conference appearances, writing or anything, the only spiritual thing I wanted to do for that 7days was worship and read my Bible, that's all. I didn't want to study anything, I told the Lord that I was taking a one week vacation to chill and enjoy other things in my life that I wasn't paying attention to besides my purpose. Some times when God tries to show me a deep Rhema when I'm reading my Bible I just skip pass it and continue reading through to feed my spirit, I didn't pause to study it like I usually would do, this went on for the whole week, everyday. 

... But because i wasn't paying any attention to the deep things that God was trying to show me during those 'resting' days, this is what God did next, hahaha, If you're not friends with the Lord I wonder how you use to do it, seriously;
My best friend Chocolate kept bombing my messages with new understanding of Scripture she was catching from her study, every single day she tells me 'my priest, I just got a deep insight on what God truly meant when He said this, when He said that." Next day she's at my inbox again with a 5 page article she has written about a Rhema she caught.
Funny thing was that I would intentionally ignore reading them, because I know me, if I as much as catch a bit of that fire I would be forced to come out of resting, and I didn't want to do that. Sometimes she would share a deep revelation with me and when she noticed that I haven't read it yet she'll send another message and be like "baby, please read what I sent to you"..
I mean she was coming at me everywhere with deep revelations of scripture that was captivating. At some point even our conversation began to be about revelations, before I could say I love you the first thing she would say is 'my priest, I was studying the Word today and I caught a deep Rhema, I am writing about it now to share with you when I am done."

See Also: A letter to my Future Husband

I am not sure someone is getting this yet.
See, I met Chocolate with a call, but that call is not about healing relationship and marriage, it is about helping the girl Child and teenagers excel in life. So it is funny to me how she is catching deep things about relationship and marriage from the scripture.
At one point I had to have a heart to heart chat with God, I said "please excuse me Lord, this one that you are now going to show Choco all the things you use to show me i don't understand again, it's like you're now mistaking Choco for me o."
I am honest with this. I found myself asking God why He was revealing the things He reveals to me to her.
Then the understanding came...
I felt God's answer in my heart saying " son, I have a lot to share with you but you wanted to rest, I tried to reveal them to you but you couldn't pause to study it, so I revealed them to Zion instead, since she's your next of kin in spiritual places I know that if I cannot reach you I can reach her on your behalf, knowing that the things I share with her she will share with you. Remember when you use to say that if you were too distracted to listen to me I should talk to your partner. Besides, I AM starting to think that she understands me faster than you do"
I need you to understand this guys, write it down somewhere if you can;
"Marry someone whose purpose in life is in a relationship with what you have been called to do".

It's so important for us believers that we marry purpose rather than marrying people. God was able to give my message to my partner because she shares a purpose that is not far from what I have been called to do. I didn't meet her teaching about relationship and marriage, but  what she has been put on this earth to do and what I have been put on this earth to do can stand in for each other. God could trust her with the message because God is confident in her delivery..
This is so deep guys, above everything else MARRY PURPOSE.
Some people have been married for 5 years but their purpose in life divorced each other 3 months after the wedding when they realized they're not compatible, so what they have is an endured marriage. Physically they are married and living together but what both have been called To do on this earth are living single, their purpose in life is sleeping in different rooms..
Marry purpose guys, marry purpose!
It is purpose that gives the big buttocks and big breast a meaning. The handsome face and the six packs will make no sense if his purpose cannot stand in for yours.

See Also: Maintaining Purity in Relationship

After I sat down to study all that Chocolate shared with me I was amazed and grateful that God used her to save those revelations for me, and I made it easier for Him to do because I am with a partner who can contain it.
I know a lot of married people today who cannot take their partner's advice, the only word they believe from their partner is "baby go and lock the door", you know what I mean. God cannot share anything with your partner when you're not around because they wouldn't even listen to Him, let alone have the capacity to contain it.
Marry purpose guys, marry someone whose purpose is related to yours, someone whose purpose in life can multiply yours. The call does not have to be the same, it just has to have a relationship.

When what your partner has been called to do can be found somewhere inside what you have been called to do, that is a relationship.

If you're in a relationship with someone whose purpose in life is a compliment to yours you will understand this;
Has your partner ever shared something with you that left you wondering why you didn't come up with that beautiful solution yourself? Ehhh there have to be a purpose relationship guys, it makes it really easy for God to relate with you two, because A sees what B sees, A understands what B would understand, God sharing with A is the same as sharing with B,  sometimes God will even decide to share with B something that is originally meant for A, because He knows that A will catch it faster if it is coming from B.
Oh I wish someone caught this, I wish!"
All credit to Allison Hyacintho
@Confessions of a Good man.

You see marriage has a purpose, it is not just about I love you, it is more about I am on purpose with you. It is about we are on Assignment together with lots of Consignment to enjoy. Marriage was not made to be endured but to be enjoyed.

You can only walk in purpose in marriage when you have discovered your purpose in life. You can only discover your purpose by going to your manufacture (God) and ask Him to reveal to you. You can do this by having a relationship first with God, if you don't have a relationship with God you can begin now by saying this prayer:

Lord Jesus Christ  I acknowledge that I am a sinner,  I believe in your death and resurrection.  I ask you forgive me my sins,  I reject the devil and all his works and l welcome the Holy Spirit into my life.  I declare today I am born again and I am a child of God in Jesus name .Amen .
If you just said that prayer I welcome you to God's family. Look for a Bible believing church where God's word is taught and fellowship there.
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  1. This blog is awesome. God bless the team greatly. It has been inspiring and highly educative. Thanks a lot .

  2. Thanks very much Sir James we glad to always have you here.