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The Grass is green by virtue of its relationship with a fertile soil. What are you doing to make your life and relationship green? How fertile is your soil( mind)?


We will be unveiling some of the secrets to avoiding a bad relationship/marriage. God's design from the beginning is that your premarital relationship should lead to marriage not from one breakup to another before you finally  have your rest in marriage. God wants to lead us in our relationships and this only happens when we are led by the Holy Spirit not by our feelings or emotions. Why should you allow God lead you in other areas of your life but not allow Him lead you in your relationship?

"For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God" (Romans 8:14).

Let's look at some of the Secrets For Avoiding A Bad Marriage/Relationship.

Of all the decisions you make in your life, none will be as important as deciding who you’ll marry . Because a bad choice can wreak havoc with your life and cause years of unhappiness, that’s why we are here today to unveil the secrets for avoiding a bad marriage.

Psychology Today says there are 5 areas that form the glue that holds healthy relationships together. They are:
You need to pace yourself and not let any one of these 5 areas get in front of another, because if you make a commitment before you know you can really trust a person, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment. Or if you commit to someone you’re not sure you really love, you’ll be headed for divorce court, sooner or later.

The same applies for getting emotionally involved. You shouldn't tell your innermost feelings to someone just because you feel an attraction and chemistry.

You should also look at how your potential mate handles family, friends , and coworkers – because that’s how you’ll be treated too.

A dead-giveaway that a person isn’t right for you is if you’re afraid to tell your friends or family about something they’ve done – or how they treat you. Sometimes people minimize, or downplay, problems in order to keep the relationship going. But the trouble is, those problems won’t magically go away – they just cause BIGGER problems in the long run.

So what’s the take home message ? If you want a good marriage you need the 5 things that glue relationships together : Love, trust, commitment, intimacy, and attachment; and these points are as important as the other.

After salvation, the most important choice you will need to make is who to marry, the choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy forever.

A Bad Marriage can affect every other area of your life. So many married people are hoping to be single again so as to make the right choice. If you are single please don't just be in hurry to get married, you have the best opportunity to prepare for it.
For Two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree; SPIRITUALLY MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY, just like an Elephant can not marry an Ant also as a believer cannot marry an unbeliever.

The Devil's Primary Target is the family, he knows that every one belongs to a Family and if he can make two wrong people meet then he has succeeded affecting the community and Nation Negatively. Ignore your Age and Forget your mates are getting married and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse oh!

God has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right, know what you need in a woman and a man...

Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you make him or her better, it is about Destiny, that is why you must know your purpose before you get married.
(Gen 2:18).

Prayer is key in choosing who to marry. You must pray before You choose, God knows the best person for you.

May You not miss your direction in marriage.

I pray that you will not end up in wrong marriage.

You'll have successful marriage in Jesus name.

You cannot have the right things in place when you do not have the Wisdom of God in you. Jesus is the Wisdom of God.

You can begin a relationship now with the Lord Jesus Christ by saying this prayer:
Lord Jesus Christ I acknowledge that I am a sinner, I believe in your death and resurrection. I ask you to forgive me my sins, I reject the devil and all his works and l welcome the Holy Spirit into my life. I declare today I am born again and I am a child of God in Jesus name. Amen.

If you just said that prayer I welcome you to God's family. Look for a Bible believing church where God's word is taught and fellowship there.

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