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"Through wisdom is a house built; and by understanding it is established"(Proverbs 24:3).

 The desire to be in a relationship has led some ladies with the tendency of forcing themselves on a guy. What do I mean by a Lady forcing herself on a guy? I mean she is pushing hard on the guy to be in a relationship with her even if the guy might not be interested. She does things just to make the guy feel very uncomfortable with her presence. Her actions most times towards the guy will even cost her loosing the friendship which can make her sad and depressed. All the guy sees is that they are just friends and the girl takes it to a new level that the guy might not be interested in.

This attitude of some ladies will do the following to them:

1. Make them unhappy: They will be very unhappy with the level of friendship they have, because they want something more which the guy can't see and give them now. Their being sad will hinder the flow of communication which will have an adverse effect in the friendship.

2.  It makes them loose their worth: When a lady is going out of her way just to make a guy to be in a relationship with her, she will certainly loose her worth. A guy is not interested in a girl who comes with the mindset of " I need you ". A guy should be the one chasing after a Lady, though a Lady can show her interest in a guy and allow him do the pushing. A girl pushing a guy will not make him see how valuable the girl is to him. He will see her as a pest instead of an asset. A guy should see a lady as someone he can't do without because of her worth.

Please you can add other reasons you know on the comment box. We will be glad to see yours.

In a dating relationship a lady should Respond:
As it is the man's God ordained role to initiate, so it is the woman's God ordained role to respond. Her response may be positive or negative, it may occur through her father, her family or words directly to her potential suitor. But whatever the circumstances, her role is as responder, not initiator. A guy need to learn how to lead (whether he likes it or not), a lady need to learn what it is to let a man assume spiritual leadership in the relationship — and to respond to that leadership. Ultimately, this means learning to trust God's goodness and sovereignty. Clearly, this is not the popular secular view of the "liberated" woman's role. Hollywood's perfect woman runs with the boys, knows what she wants and is aggressive en route to getting it — especially romantically. Hilariously, Hollywood even writes these characters into period pieces, as if the normal woman at all levels of society in the 18th and 19th centuries was a post-feminist, post-sexual-revolution, "there-ain't-no-difference-between-me-and-you" libertine. But I digress. Needless to say, that is not the biblical picture of the responder. So what does this picture look like? Does this mean that a woman should never ask a man out on a first date? I think it does. Does this mean that a woman shouldn't give the guy the assurance he needs by "leaking" news of her interest to him by way of his friends? Again, I think so. "Wait," you say. "What if I'm really interested in a man and he just isn't getting it and I need to move him along?" Don't. When men drop the ball on leadership (as we often do), it presents a temptation for the woman involved to pick up the reins and lead for him. This is no less true within marriage. Picking up the reins sets a terrible pattern that only confuses the roles in the relationship and encourages both of you to take the role of the other to the detriment of the relationship and ultimately the marriage. The Lord is sovereign.

 If it doesn't work out with a particular guy because he didn't step up, the Lord will cause something else to work out. He knows what is best for each of us, and all of us must learn to trust Him — especially about things that are really important to us.

"A woman is to be pursued not be the pursuer". 

A lady that chooses to woo a guy should be ready to continue in that position in the relationship/ marriage. A woman is royalty, she is a princess and deserves only the best, this is why the Bible says men love your wives and women are to submit to their husbands (Ephesians 5: 23-26 ). This is how God ordained it to be. So men pursue and women prepare yourselves to be pursued.

Jesus is the Bride groom he pursued his Bride ( the church) because of his love for his Bride, this he showed to the extent of death on the cross.

You can begin a relationship now with the lord Jesus Christ and experience His love for you by saying this prayer:

Lord Jesus Christ  I acknowledge that I am a sinner,  I believe in your death and resurrection.  I ask you forgive me my sins,  I reject the devil and all his works and l welcome the Holy Spirit into my life.  I declare today I am born again and I am a child of God in Jesus name .Amen .
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