Welcome to Purposeful living today. Hope you had an amazing week?

This week "Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in the grave, whither thou goest"(Ecclesiastical 9:10 KJV).

This brings us to the topic of today:


"Delight thyself also in the Lord: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart" (Psalm 37:4).

Most persons are not married because they are seriously searching for the perfect one to marry. The confusion and frustration of finding the perfect one has drained them emotionally and even spiritually. As their prayer point is that God should reveal the perfect one for them. Hmmm... Will God answer that prayer and is it the biblical way to pray for a spouse?

Is there a perfect one to marry?
There is no perfect person to marry in this world, the only perfect person you need to marry is Jesus and if you are a born again Christian you are already married to Him, He is the bridegroom and you (the Church ) are the bride. So you see there is no vacancy to see the perfect one to marry lol.

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So who do I marry?
You marry a person that has this two important attributes:
1. Marry the perfecting one:
This is a person who is being perfected by their relationship with the lord Jesus Christ. They are born again and have the righteousness of God through Christ Jesus in them. They are perfected daily as they behold the lovely face of the Lord Jesus who is transforming their mind to the image and likeness of God. They delight in the word of God and seek to please God with their lifestyle by the Grace of God and through faith in the lord Jesus.

A person who is willing to allow the word of God renew their mind and possess the fruits of the Spirit. The person does not live the way he/she wants but lives in submission to the word of God and sees it as the final authority in their life.

2. Marry the right one for you:
You marry the person that you are compatible with, a person that you know you can partner with in life. The compatibility should be looked in the following areas; spiritual, financial, social, intellectual and vision compatibility. Someone who can support you and your vision. You marry the person who loves, respect and trust you for who you are not what you are.

"The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord: and he delighteth in his way" (Psalms 37:23 KJV).

Take away the myth of the perfect one:
If there is a perfect one my dear then those whose wives and husband died and chose to remarry will end up enduring instead of enjoying their marriage because the perfect one is dead...
This is a wrong mindset.
Stop looking for the perfect one and look for someone who is the will of God for you and who you can partner with in life with your God given vision. When you pray for God to lead you to the right one, he will lead you as he led the servant of Abraham in Genesis 24. If you are asking him for the perfect one, He will most likely say to you, that person is not born yet.

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So my friend allow God order your steps to the right person He knows for you and be willing to pay the price of sacrifice to build your relationship/ marriage to bring glory to God and for your blessings. Relationship/ marriage should be full of joy, peace and love in the Holy Ghost. Hallelujah!

Join us on Wednesday for another inspiring post.

You are Blessed!

You deserve the best, but only God gives the best. The devil gives you what looks like the best but it is only an adulterated product that will cost you pain and sorrow in future.

You can begin a relationship now with the Lord Jesus Christ who loves you more than anyone on earth and will lead you to a loving relationship by saying this prayer:
Lord Jesus Christ  I acknowledge that I am a sinner,  I believe in your death and resurrection.  I ask you forgive me my sins,  I reject the devil and all his works and l welcome the Holy Spirit into my life.  I declare today I am born again and I am a child of God in Jesus name .Amen .
If you just said that prayer I welcome you to God's family. Look for a Bible believing church where God's word is taught and fellowship there.
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I believe this post has blessed you...
Do have a blessed day... You are Blessed!

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