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So let's begin with today's gist, this will inspire you to live a life of sexual purity.

"Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid" ( 1Corinthians 6:15 KJV).

Dear Friend, what's between your legs is not met to control the direction of your destiny but you are to control your sexual desires by the help of the Holy Spirit.

What's between your legs have the power of life and death. It has sentenced some to their early grave and has  been used to give life, you reading this write up is a product of your parents using theirs.

Your sexuality is not a curse but a blessing. It is not to be abused but used for the glory of your Creator.

Many have abused it, I have discovered that things that matter most in destiny is what the devil targets more, he does that because he can destroy more lives and destiny that way.

Sexual urge is not ungodly, it does not make you a sinner. God gave it to you and it can be controlled.

Related: This truth will make you free from sexual sin.

"It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality;that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God" (1Thessalonians 5:3-5 NIV).

Most destines of people have been controlled by what is between their legs. The guy can't zip up, any girl he sees he looks for a way to get into her. He doesn't know her from Adam, he doesn't even know if she is infected with any sexually transmitted disease, he doesn't know if the girl is a Delilah packaged from hell that will destroy his enviable destiny. All he is concerned about is her front and back, he can't sleep because he always think of her front yard and back yard. He says that babe  is "sexy",  he wants to have "sex scene" with her. He does and then becomes an expectant father. He does and his life from that day becomes a mess because something has been transacted spiritually. He does and he can't focus on his dreams anymore. He does and he looses his honourable reputation to that of deputation, he can't sit before kings because he has chosen the part of slaves.

The aftermath of the inability to control what's between the legs tells more on the ladies than even the guys. The guy says "proof to me you love me by giving me sex". She then gives him sex and the guys takes pleasure in her when he is tired of her he dumps her like a empty water can, he has drank the water he needs (sexual desires) to satisfaction. He doesn't  like your factory product again, so he moves to the next new water can he just discovered. The girl can't control her self  so she goes about from one guy to another,  she gives the excuse of poverty as the reason for her action, truth be told  apart from commercial or private prostitute which is illegal and against God's will for your life are there not other ways to make money?  There are 1001 ways to get money no matter your background without defiling yourself.

The problem is that we want already made things and want to make quick money at the expense of our future. We are not willing to pay the price to work hard and delay gratification. You want to be like your friends and buy a shoe of 50,000 naria, you want to go shopping in Dubai nor be only Dubai lol.

"Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God" ( Romans 6:13 KJV).

My lady, If your future is to be the President of your Country, how much will a guy offer you now even if it is in millions of dollars that is compared to your great and enviable future.
The great women we hear of today, what made them great? Was it because they sold their bodies? No, it was because they traded their potentials and talents not their body.
They made use of the potentials and talent God has given them defiling every barrier.
The reason why the devil has allowed you believe that there is no way out for you, that selling your body to a guy in the name of love, money, security and fame is the only way out, is because he is presently blocking your mind to see the big picture God has for you. As far as you believe in his lies you can't have God's truth revealed for you life and destiny.

We should control what's  between our legs, your body should not control you but you control your body. This is why one of the fruit of the Holy Spirit is called self control.

"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires" (Galatians 5:22-24).

Self control brings to your awareness that what's  between your legs was made for a purpose. It makes you understand that God created it to serve only in marriage not in a boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship. It is not a public instrument but a private instrument that should be privately used with a private person and in a private union.

What happens when we don't control what's  between our legs, the following will be invited:
1. Sexually transmitted diseases
2. Sexually transmitted demons
3. Unwanted Pregnancy
4. Abortion ( Murder)
5. Emotional trauma
6. Forced Parenthood
7. Forced Marriage
8. Dreams aborted
9. Sexual slavery
10. It can lead to death etc.

I know you say it is fun, but can you think for a moment? The effect of minutes of sexual pleasure can change your life forever and result to life long pain and regret.
The guy suffering from sexually transmitted disease will not see it as fun
The young lady that has lost her womb and has HIV will not see as fun any more.

Your body is not your own, it is God's. It is His temple and should be used for His Glory.

"Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own;you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies" ( 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 NIV).

You are asking how do I control my sexual desires? You have done all you know can, read books and followed the principles, yet you see yourself still live in the act of immorality. The only way out is the lord Jesus who has bought your body with His precious  blood and by the power of the Holy Spirit He sets you free from every sexual addiction. He is your lover and maker and he wants to help you out. You can only have him set you free by beginning a personal relationship with Him.

You can begin a relationship now with the Lord Jesus Christ by saying this prayer:
Lord Jesus Christ  I acknowledge that I am a sinner,  I believe in your death and resurrection.  I ask you forgive me my sins,  I reject the devil and all his works and l welcome the Holy Spirit into my life.  I declare today I am born again and I am a child of God in Jesus name .Amen .
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