WHAT A GUY SHOULD KNOW BEFORE FINDING A WIFE PART 2

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On Monday we began the series on What a man should know before finding a wife Part 1. We said the first thing a man should know is to know God; to have an intimate relationship with God his source. Today we will be looking at:
2. A guy should Know his Purpose on earth:
Life is not by accident, it is on purpose. You can not be a biological mistake, it does not mean if you are an orphan or born out of wedlock. You are a creature of the All Purpose God.
" And the Lord God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it" ( Genesis 2:15).
After God brought man to his presence the next thing He did was to give man his purpose,  which was to dress and keep the garden. Dressing and keeping all God had created was the purpose of Him creating man, He made man the first Gardner.  God is the CEO of the earth, he made man the managing Director of the earth. God is the creator He made man a procreator.  This why Adam had the ability to give names to all the animals without making mistakes renaming them. God gave man a work which also means responsibility not a job. A job is what you do that you are paid for and if you are not paid you won't do it, you will just leave the company. Work is what you love to do, you do it even when you are not paid. Work is what you have been wired by your creator to do to, it is living a life of responsibility. This means that a man should be able to define his purpose on earth and be responsible for his actions in life. Purpose gives man a definition for living, life is meaningless without purpose. This is necessary in his choice of a wife, friends, profession,  lifestyle etc.
A man should not  find a wife when he does not know his purpose on earth. The church is called the Bride of Christ. When Jesus Christ who is the last Adam and Bridegroom of the church was on earth He always stated his purpose:
"The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to preach deliverance to the captives, and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised. To preach the acceptable year of the Lord" ( Luke 4:18-19).
This is why we His bride can follow Him, he has become our Saviour, Deliverer, Healer, Lover... By virtue  of him living a purposeful life on earth. Today we love to be called His Bride because we know He is the way, truth and life; he has a future for us. So we are not afraid of being called his bride as he leads us to a better life on earth and in eternity. This is why as a Bridegroom he always stands at the door of our heart knocking for us his bride to open the door of our heart for Him to come in. (Rev 3:20)
As a man what can you say like Jesus said is your Purpose for being alive?
You are looking for a wife have you discovered your Purpose in life?
It is for the fulfillment of purpose you need a wife. She has to be your help meet in fulfilling God's purpose for your life. This is why God said it is not good for this man to be alone who has a purpose for life (Genesis 2:18).
You want a wife! So what do you want her to help you with?
A woman is not just here to breed babies or take care of your home. Her head office is not in the kitchen. She is worth more than being a house wife, she has a multiplier effect in whatever seed you give her. It is an infinitesimal seed you sow in her today that in nine months becomes a child can't you see how powerful she is?  She is a life giver and can give life to your dreams if you will allow her to. No wonder she is called a womb man, guy you don't have a womb so allow her to womb your ideas, dreams, plans for the fulfillment of your Purpose and see the result that will amaze you.
Guys note this " Your wife is to be by your side as an equal; to be loved by you. She was taken from your rib  to walk in partnership with you not from your foot to be trampled on by you."
You need a woman that will be a companion, someone who will assist you in fulfilling your dreams. You don't just need a beautiful face but you need a woman with a beautiful mind that thinks like yours no wonder Adam exclaimed " this is the bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh " when he saw Eve for the first time.
It is my prayer that all the guys and men reading this post will seek God's purpose for their lives not money, fame, women, sex, position etc. Purpose will surely command your provision. Your talents, career, gifts, potentials are only tools in the expression of your Purpose. Jesus could preach, teach and had several abilities in Him but His purpose was to redeem man:
"He that committeth sin is of the devil; for the devil sinneth from the beginning. For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that he might destroy the works of the devil" (1John 3:8).
Take out time to seek the face of God on His purpose for you, this is the only way you can marry the woman that is fit for you. We continue with the last part of this series on Friday.
Related:
 What you should know before beginning a relationship

Created for a Purpose.


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It is only God that can reveal your purpose to you "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end" (Jeremiah 29:11).
He can only do that if you have a relationship with Him. If you have not began a relationship with God you can begin now by saying this prayer:
Lord Jesus Christ  I acknowledge that I am a sinner,  I believe in your death and resurrection.  I ask you forgive me my sins,  I reject the devil and all his works and l welcome the Holy Spirit into my life.  I declare today I am born again and I am a child of God in Jesus name .Amen .
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