MY LADY JUST BEFORE YOU SAY YES TO MARRY HIM. PART 2

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On Monday we began this series on what a girl need to know before saying yes to guy. Please do read the Part 1 so you can be on the same page with us. Today we will be looking at the second most important thing a lady should know which is: 


2. SHE SHOULD UNDERSTAND HER ROLE 
My lady you have to know and understand your role as a woman to a man before you get married. If any of these roles are not  yet in operation in your life it is time to activate it now!
These are some of the roles of a woman:
1. SHE SHOULD BE A HELPER
“And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him" ( Genesis 2:18).
Every Woman is created  by God  to be a helper to her husband, to help him fulfill his purpose. This is her first purpose as a woman to her husband. She should know that she has a place not just a space in the home.  Most ladies don't know that they have a place on earth, to live  life to the fullest and a Purpose to fulfill. I mean God created you for a purpose not only the man, your place is not just in the kitchen or  your home as a house wife. You are created by God to make an impact in the world. I want every lady reading this post to be challenged to fulfill God's Purpose for their lives. Yes, you have to oh!
When God created Eve He called her  a "help meet" to Adam. She was to assist Adam in the responsibility God entrusted to Him. Remember that at this time they had no children, so this made me think where did the concept of a woman should only be a house wife came from, she is not met to do anything but to stay in the house, cater for her husband, the children and family.
Friend, let's go back to the beginning, was this God's structure for giving Adam a wife?
I don't think so, He said Mrs Eve help Mr Adam, it is not good for him to be alone doing all the responsibility I have given him. God looked at you my dear beautiful and priceless jewel saying babe you got to help that man in his purpose;  and the following responsibilities given to him such as in business, finances, spiritual, career, family, in impacting his life and that of others God has placed in His care. God did not put her in a space called the house to be his house wife but  put her in a place of responsibility to work in partnership with the man.
I will ask again my lady have you discovered your purpose in life?
2. SHE IS A GIVER OF LIFE
“And Adam called his wife’s name Eve; because she was the mother of all living" (Genesis 3:20).
A woman is created to give life, Eve is the mother of all  living, every woman was created to raise living Children, nurturing them to grow  in maturity in the ways of God. She is to give life with the words she speaks to her man and not speak death that will ruin their lives.
3. SHE IS A MULTIPLIER
“And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth" ( Genesis 1:28).
When God blessed the man to be fruitful and Multiply, he couldn’t do this until a woman came to the picture, a woman was created to bring to pass the covenant of fruitfulness and Multiplication. Anything you give to a woman has a multiplier effect. So it’s not the will of God for any woman to be barren for any reason, it’s your purpose to be fruitful in your body, mind, soul and spirit. Develop your mind to be fruitful before he comes so you can multiply his ideas and dreams to manifestation.

4. SHE SHOULD BE A  SPIRITUAL COVERING
“Kings of armies did flee apace: and she that tarried at home divided the spoil.
Though ye have lien among the pots, yet shall ye be as the wings of a dove covered with silver, and her feathers with yellow gold" ( Psalms 68:12-13).
When kings of armies are running away from the battlefield, women that tarried at home where winning battles on their knees, dividing the spoil.
A woman should get out to be a shield to her husband, a covering, a cover for her Man. Praying for her husband is one major duty of a Woman, you are a covering. Be a warrior woman, if you are not you have to start now. Prayer is one of the  very important things that sustains marriage.
5. SHE SHOULD BE A HOMEMAKER
“She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens" ( Proverb 31:15).
A woman is expected to be a homemaker, she was created for that. Making the home what God wants it to be, nurturing the Children, helping her husband, making everything to be in order is the purpose of God for every Woman.
6. SHE SHOULD BE A HOME KEEPER
"To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed" ( Titus 2:5).
You are not just to make the home you must keep the house, you must be the gate keeper of the house on your knee. Keep the house through your words and thought. Don't act by what people say about your man. Every information is not needed, build high the walls in your heart and home away from intruders. Guard your heart my lady!
7. SHE SHOULD BE HIS BEST FRIEND
“A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother" ( Proverb 18:24).
You are the best friend in the life of your Husband. You are to stick to him and be closer than a brother. He should not have another person he will want to share things first with apart from God other than you. This is why God brought you together, to be his constant companion. So my lady begin to build yourself to be his best friend.
8. SHE SHOULD BE A CARRIER OF GOODNESS
“Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing , and obtaineth favour of the Lord" (Proverb 18:22).
A woman should bring good and great things into the life of her husband  and family.
When a Man marries his life should change for better because a woman was created to be a “good thing” in the life of her husband and bring favor his way which he wouldn’t have been able to enjoy as a single man.
9. SHE SHOULD BE A MENTOR
“That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children" (Titus 2:4).
Every woman is created to raise and mentor other younger women. It is the purpose of every great woman to raise a other great women. You must be a model for up coming women and your children to emulate and copy. 
Are a role model to others now that you are single?
My lady it is time to begin to build yourself in your role as a woman before you say yes to Him in marriage.
The relationship between a woman's purpose in life and that of her husband should be mutual. They should apart from love have a purpose for getting married. The man should find the woman's purpose as part of his or else it will be difficult for them to work together as a team - can two work together except they be agreed? (Amos 3:3) the couple must have mutual interest that brings them together and using that to impact their generation.
Your career is not your purpose, it is a channel through which you fulfill purpose. Your purpose is the reason you are created by God on earth...To be continued on Friday. You are blessed.
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