Welcome to purposeful living today. Love is a very powerful tool for a glorious relationship with people.  In a bit to seek love we have done things to our detriment, the detriment of others and destroyed our enviable future.
It is possible to have a healthy relationship, but how do you seek to get the relationship of your dreams?
Do you intend to get it at all cost,  even at the cost of loosing heaven because of one guy/girl by living below the standard of God's kingdom? 
Why do we celebrate lots of heart break today?
This is because the truth has been hidden from us and this is why many of us have been living in a lie. Yes, we have been living in bondage. We have been made to believe that it is a sin to  develop feelings for the opposite sex. We have been told to keep people we love at any cost. We have been made to believe that there is one perfect person for us,  we try to please them so we don't lose them...
keeping people in a relationship is one truth that has been altered with lot of lies from hell,  where you are told that the reason your relationship is not working is because you have not given the guy what he wants,  so he will leave you for another when you don't try to please him at the detriment of your relationship with God.
No matter what you think you can do,  you can't truly keep a person that does not love you passionately, be  it through the medium of sex,  gifts, trying to please them etc.
What actually keeps a person very dear to you is the genuine passion of love connection you both share, is there a soul mate dimension in your relationship? Is there true friendship? Do you have freedom of communication? Do you both have shared purpose,  goals and vision? Do you love each others company?
Relationship is more than what happens to us but more of what happens in us. When God knitted the heart of David and Jonathan together,  they did not struggle to build a covenant relationship of love.
Jesus was so in love with you and I that he did not struggle to die on the cross for us, he was so passionate about us. Why,  the struggle in your relationship?
Allow God to knit your heart with someone,  stop trying to do it your own way.
It is a disaster to be in a relationship that only you is passionate about and the other is not.  No matter what you do,  if the person is not made to love you deeply like you do or even more,  you have to let them go.  This is the reason for so many failed marriages around us today, we see married couples that are not passionate about each other,  they are managing each other in the marriage.
Love is a passion and a fire that can't be hidden when it ignited with a person the heart yearns for.  You don't love with your head but with your heart. Don't be deceived by emotions move by the motions of the Spirit, for deep calls unto the deep. Trust God in your relationship,  allow him to order your steps. 
Friend, don't make that mistake of trying to make something work,  when you know it is not working.  How long do you plan to do that,  for a life time?
If he/she loves you they will be passionate about you, and you will be proud to show them to the world. They will go the extra mile all for you.
When someone you love does not love you deeply,  does it make you less? No,  it means there is someone very special for you who will love you deeply. You have to be patient and align yourself with God. 
Think of your happiness, will you be happy in that relationship. You deserve to be happy and deeply loved.
You can only love people passionately when you have experienced that love from Jesus Christ.  Friend,  He is interested in leading you to the best relationship that will not hurt you. Surrender  your life to him today allow him love you.
Don't forget God is love personified.
"There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love."1John 4:18.
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  1. Wonderful writer up, it's always beautiful looking at such a topic from the light of the scripture