A LETTER TO MY FUTURE HUSBAND


Welcome to purposeful living today. This letter is for all guys to know how to treat the women around them in love knowing that one day they will be married and also, for girls to become the woman they want to be, patterning their lives in the will of God according to His word




Dear Future Husband,

I am a woman. This does not mean that I am a mere trophy, an outsourced breeder of babies, a breathing spatula to toss your eggs or even an on-hand porn artist. I am first my Father’s daughter and I am definitely more than what has been spoken of me! So I ask you brother that you hear me out. I am a dreamer, helper, nurturer, inventor and an individual. I am not a piece of meat or a skirt out on the street. I am not just a set of legs or a pretty face. Don’t limit me to a mere fantasy or a test drive for your hormones. Listen brother I am a woman…my Father’s daughter. I love to be loved by you but I do not want you to treat me like loving me is a favour. Love me like I’m that gift. Unwrap me with kindness, mercy and the fear of the Lord because listen brother I am my Father’s daughter. I need you in my life because I want to share life and glory with you not to be unshed of life and glory. Do not leave me naked. Do not leave me ashamed. Instead I ask that you be my cover, my brother and not my undercover lover. Before you came into my life I was breathing life already. I was walking, talking, thinking, dreaming, singing, growing way before you came into my life. I simply love sharing the beauty of my life with you but please do not exploit my purity for your own lusts or gain. Honour me by honouring the Word of God for me. Listen brother I am my Father’s daughter. Treat me like you would your blood sister. Hold me like a tender rose and look at me like I am that carrier of life. And when you talk to me let it be as if you’re serenading God. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Brother I know you think that I demand too much but all I am asking for is acceptance and perfect love. Do not steal my innocence.

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Do not invade my privacy without my Father’s consent. Do not undress me before time. Pay the price for the totality of my womanhood. Marry me if you truly want to unwrap all of me. I hope you know that my unique expression of kindness and gentleness towards you is not at all a sign of weakness or inadequacy. When I submit to you it is out of obedience to God not out of fear. So you see I am not a weak vessel at all. In my heart is a desire to serve you and help you be the best man you can be. After you have prepared a house for us I will serve you. Serving you however does not mean that I do not have my own independent dreams. Finally understand that though I love to be led by you it does not mean that I cannot lead myself into my own destiny when you fail. I pray always that you do not fail. I get on my knees for you. One day my prince I will love you… I will love you fiercely. It is God who designed perfect romance. It is that type of Woman that would make you want to give up bachelorhood!
BY LERATO SIBANDA
Dear, the woman you want to be is based on the pictures of the woman you have built over time in your heart. The expectations of your heart is what determines your manifestation.
If you have built the picture of a nagging woman, that you will become.
If you think every man is bad and a cheat you will get that from your husband even when that was never in his mind.


If you think you can sleep with anyone or give your body to a guy as a single you will do same as a married woman with any slight opportunity.
If you think a man has to be responsible for everything in your life, you will end up destroying your marriage.
Dear friend, what ever thought pattern that is not consistent with God's word refuse to allow it find a bearing in your heart. Please guard your heart with all diligence because you are a carrier of favour to the man you will marry.
Guys, be careful oh of how you treat these women! it is what you sow you reap even more self. Treat them with love, honour and respect. They are not your sex toy. They are not a place to ease your emotional stress. They are not your baby factory. They are not weaker vessels as you see them and abuse their emotions. They are strong and powerful, they are carriers of the glory of God. They carry the aroma of favour. They will be of tremendous blessing to you if you know how to maximize them for God's glory.

Never let your present circumstances determine your glorious future See here on how you can walk in your glorious future.

Whatever price you have to pay for your future please do because a great Prize awaits you.
To the Gals:
You are God's Princess he has a Prince for you as far as you allow him lead you. Together you will build an empire for His Glory. Hallelujah!!!

REMEMBER THIS!!
Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. Proverb 4:23.
You can only become the woman that God wants you to be by you surrendering your heart to the lord Jesus. He is the only one that can make you the woman your husband will be happy with and ultimately He will be happy with your union. He wants to take away that negative mindset, that sinful life style and empower you by His Spirit to live for Him.

You can invite the Lord Jesus in your life now by saying this prayer:

Lord Jesus Christ I acknowledge that I am a sinner, I believe in your death and resurrection. I ask you to forgive me my sins, I reject the devil and all his works and l welcome the Holy Spirit into my life. I declare today I am born again and I am a child of God in Jesus name .Amen .
If you just said that prayer I welcome you to God's family. Look for a Bible believing church where God's word is taught and fellowship there.

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